The Advanced Relationship Development Model is the main framework and curriculum I use with all of my clients (Private Clients, Women's Groups, Live Events, Etc.). It has been developed over years of research, learning, and testing, and gives specific frameworks, processes, tools & techniques that you can use to more effectively navigate your relationship to yourself, life, and others.
THE ADVANCED RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT:
The Advanced Relationship Blueprint shows you the difference between Traditional Relationship and Advanced Relationship, and includes ways to identify which way you are relating to yourself, life and/or others in any given moment in time.
THE P.O.E.T PROCESS:
After learning a variety of coaching and therapeutic models, I found that there are 4 essential steps in the healing and transformation process. I noticed that each of the models I studied and learned includes one or more of these essential steps.
The POET Process was designed as a complete illustration showing you how to move from a Traditional to an Advanced way of relating with yourself, life, and others in any given moment.
I apply a variety of coaching and therapeutic models to each of these four steps. I have found that the order of these four steps is extremely important, and understanding that has gotten many clients unstuck.
This process has been hands-down the most helpful thing I have ever created for use in my own life, and in my work with clients.
INTIMACY CAPACITY & THE FOUR ACCESS POINTS:
No matter how Advanced you become in your ability to relate to yourself, life and others, and no matter how much you grow, you will always have your limits.
Your intimacy capacity illustrates ways to assess your limits, and what to do when you get to your edges and begin to feel overwhelmed or triggered.
The Four Access Points are the four doorways through which you can apply the P.O.E.T Process when you hit these limits.
THE DYNAMIC OF STRUGGLE AND HARMONY - THE POLARITIES:
I believe that as an individual you are a complete whole. Think of a yin-yang symbol ☯️.
You, as an individual, are a complete yin-yang. You have both sides of all polarities within you...including: masculine & feminine, dark & light, emotional & logical, back & front, right & left, etc.).
When you enter into a relationship with anyone...whether a spouse, a child, a friend, etc. it is like two yin-yang's now come together to create another yin-yang that encompasses the two of you (who are both still whole yin-yang's yourself)...and so it goes.
When you find yourself in conflict...whether it's with yourself, or another...it's usually a sign of imbalance.
Understanding how to harmonize & integrate the polarities & paradoxes (which may appear as opposites) within yourself, and in relationship with others, will allow you to move through tension and conflict in more productive and useful ways.
THE SPEAKER & LISTENER SOLUTION:
The Speaker & Listener Solution is a conversational format that teaches you the steps and tools for having more effective & creative conversations in the face of conflict, struggle, and differences.
THE 5 STAGES OF CREATIVE OUTCOME:
The 5 Stages of Creative Outcome are just that...the 5 stages you can learn how to effectively utilize, to consciously create a new desired outcome.
All of the different tools & techniques that are applied to the sections above.
COACHING & ACCOUNTABILITY:
Coaching & Accountability gives a structure to keep you focused on learning and practicing the skills, and includes a place to ask questions, make mistakes, and learn how to apply everything that's useful to your unique situation.
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